Tuesday, April 14, 2015

The Case of Jennifer Laude: Looking Beyond the Crime

A few days ago, a gay friend of mine asked me to sign a petition to support the LGBT community, in light of the recent tragedy involving the murder of a transgender woman named Jennifer Laude. I declined, and he was quite surprised with my reaction. He started questioning where my sympathy lies and if i'm one of those who are very keen to have the GI Joe's in the country. 

Well, don’t get me wrong here. I think the military exercises are beneficial for us especially with the military threat from China looming in the horizon, though, I also think that the terms and provisions under this agreement should be revisited. In my opinion as well, it’s about time we become more open minded and stop discriminating the LGBT community. In fact, I've always been vocal about this issue. Their sexual preference doesn't make them any less of a human being. They are entitled to every single human right that a straight individual is entitled to. Perhaps, they may have some misguided actions but they should be judge based on those actions not on their sexual preference, just like everybody else.

My qualms here are more about the different organizations focusing on this tragic incident and using it to further each of their own causes, when this is just a small part of a bigger disease in our society. Justice must be handed out, not just for Jennifer Laude but for all the other past and future victims of such horrendous act. We must not just focus on sympathizing with her family and condemning her murderer alone, but more in preventing something like this to happen again and again. We should not just see this as a crime against the LGBT community but as a crime against all of us, after all, we belong in one country.

Before we throw our harsh judgment regarding her action for spending the night with the American while she’s actually in a relationship, let’s first try to understand her motivation for doing this. More than addressing the LGBT issue, the issue on prostitution should be looked at, thoroughly. After all, Jennifer already has a fiancĂ©e who accepted her for what she is. And she’s not alone in her plight in resorting to prostitution to earn a living.  While on the other hand, it’s rare to hear a male prostitute getting harassed or more so murdered, this is still a damning issue for our society. There are thousands of individuals in our country who can’t attend universities, let alone finished highschool and land a decent job to be able to support themselves and their family.


I don’t condone prostitution but I cannot fully blame anyone for choosing this path. I’m sure if they have better options they will not chose to make a living this way. Surely, we can do more than just to ask for justice or to petition for human rights. Surely, our government can do more than just revisit the terms of VFA. Instead of merely crying out for justice let’s look at the bigger picture. Let’s push for a better system and reforms for our country. At the least, we should acknowledge that all of us are entitled for some basic human rights, regardless of our status and sexual preferences. 

Tummy Traveler: Discovering the Wonders of Modern Basque Cuisine at Vask

Some people learn about different culture by travelling and meeting the locals. Though, this is something I also enjoy doing, I like to understand other nation’s culture better through their music and their cuisine. I love eating and I can’t survive without a fix of Mediterranean and Spanish food, hence, I had been trying out different spots around the Metro. 

My favorite spot!
Recently, I decided to introduce some of my friends to Vask, which is a huge favorite of mine. The experience had been a fantastic one for all of us. Given that the basque cuisine is highly regarded in France and in Spain, I was quite enthused to hear about the opening of this restaurant. Considered as one of the best fine dining restaurants in the Metro, Vask had been continuously earning a lot of raves from its patrons.

Nighttime at The Deck.
Perfect for those romantic dinners!
They also have an event happening
here every Friday.
 
Well, what do I love about this place? Let me see, one would be the culinary genius of Chef Luis Gonzalez. He was known to have worked for world famous restaurants such as El Celler de Can Roca and Arzak. I can also say that the awe inspiring interior and art installations by Carlo Calma and other fantastic artists always leave me fascinated! Then there’s the sometimes sensual and sometimes vibrant music playing softly in the background. Add to that is the experience of those lazy afternoons of lounging at the Deck with my friends while gazing at the sunset with a glass of wine in hand. For a foodie and art enthusiast like me, Vask is more than just a fine dining dream, it’s a haven!



Here, I’ll be listing some of my favorite bits from Vask, which I can definitely recommend to first timers!

The best tasting Carpaccio I’ve had around Manila. The parmesan ice cream is a curious thing but it definitely compliments the taste of the wagyu beef.
I'm not a big fan of anchovies but this dish is simply delightful. The mix of Calamansi and beetroot complimented the anchovies and I like the added texture produced by the bread crumbs.
I love anything crispy and of course tuna is definitely a yes! The caramelized onion made this dish really interesting!
Salads are not my go to menu, but I love this one!  The smokey flavor of jamon and the bits of foie gras make this dish, a must try!
I have 2 words for this dish – delicious and delicate! I don’t know how they manage to prepare that egg but this is a spot on!
   Pintxos with wine, pintxos with kalimotxo, pintxos with water…. pintxos all day! 
          I can eat this little bunch of goodness all day and not have enough of this. And one must try the Tuna Sous Vide, it's a definite love at first bite!

          
        Now on with the desserts, what's a nice meal without some indulging 
        sweets on the side?

Anise in your dessert, anyone? I know what you’re thinking, this made me frown too. But  you'll definitely love this one.

The taste of summer lingering sweetly on your lips, you'll want to have another round of this.

Chocolate is the love of my life. The molten chocolate, the hint of orange and vanilla simply makes this a must for fellow chocolate lovers!

Another interesting piece of dessert. The pistachio bits and the mixture of chocolate and rum ice cream, make this another favorite of mine!


So tell me what's your poison, wanna have some sip?

The name of this drink definitely got my attention. (And if you know me quite well, you'll know why.) It's definitely my Vask Poison. Mellow, sweet and fiery at the same time. 

Sweet and intoxicating. I can always drink a good sangria all my life!

Feeling adventurous or looking for a refreshing drink with a bit of a kick? Then this one got you covered. 


There goes my go to dish, dessert and drinks. Each time I visit the place it sure leaves me wanting for more. It's also a big bonus that they have a very engaging and courteous set of staff. It always feels like love at first sight!

So have you been to Vask lately?









































Thursday, August 14, 2014

Realizations: When Looking is not the same as Seeing

A couple of months ago I was buying a fruit shake from Fruitas during my lunch break. I was blurting out how I want my drink to be made while typing something on my cellphone, so naturally, I wasn't really paying much attention to her. When I looked up to check if she's doing things right, I saw her standing there immobile with a confused look on her face. I thought she just didn't understand what I've said, so speaking slowly, I repeated everything I said. She still didn't move and continued to give me that confused look so I became a little irritated. I gestured for the fruit in front of her and she started pointing on the different sizes of cups on display. I followed her lead, though, I was still wondering what's going on. I told her I don't like to have a lot of sweetener, gesturing to her with my hands while looking at her. That's when I realized what's wrong!

Silly me! I looked at her multiple times but it took me a good long while to notice that she has an ID indicating that she is deaf. I gestured to her both my apologies and my gratitude for her service. I've always love buying at Fruitas but after that, I commend and admire them more for giving her that opportunity.

As I was walking away, that brief experience got me thinking. How many times in my life had I been looking at something right in front of me, without really seeing it? How many moments came and went by in my life utterly unnoticed and disregarded? I realized that often times, days simply pass by in my life in a blur. That sometimes I forget to appreciate the little but wonderful things which are happening around me. I end up taking things for granted because I just look pass everything and everyone, too caught up with my own little world.

It was just a trivial incident but instead of heading straight back to the office to sit down in front of my computer like I always do, I decided to spend my remaining break time to walk around the nearby park. It made me think about a lot of things. I remember the times when I will simply sit down in a coffee shop or in a park and watch idly as people are passing by. I started wondering when life had become so busy that I stopped paying attention to the things happening around me. When did life became a series of deadlines and hurried walks that I stopped caring about the strangers I see and meet everyday? And when was the last time I looked at someone and tried to see the person as he or she really is?

Often times, when we look at things and people, we only see what we want to see. Or sometimes we don't really see anything at all because we aren't truly looking. Then sometime we just simply assume that we already know everything about that person just by that one glance.

Anna, may just be some random fruit shake seller but that simple encounter with her somehow changed my perspective. She made me reflect on my current activities and made me re-think my priorities. Suddenly, I wanted to know more about that sad looking lady passing by in front of me or ask that stranger, why he looks so happy. It's like every faces I see and every person I meet has a story written in their faces waiting to be told.

That inconsequential experience made me see certain things in a whole new light. It was like a tiny pebble dropping in a pool of water sending ripples far and wide.


Sunday, July 13, 2014

Falling In Love, Moving on and Finding Myself

"I want to fall in love in such a way that the mere sight of a man, even a block away from me, will shake and pierce me, will weaken me, and make me tremble and soften and melt.” ― AnaĂŻs Nin, Delta of Venus

When I first read these lines, I dismissed it as just another nonsensical and hopeless romantic notion. I didn't know about AnaĂŻs Nin or her works and I didn't care to know about her. The thing is, I have a rather cynical point of view about love and falling in love, so thoughts like these simply don't make sense to me.

I remember my life a few years back as merely going through the motions, the same routine day after day. I do things which seemed fun and I do try to have fun but they were pretty much the same old stuff. I've been in relationships and they were mostly alright but if I have to be honest, those relationships didn't really mean that much to me. My life was ok, it was safe and I didn't feel the need to stretch my wings. Somehow, I didn't feel the need to go out of my comfort zone or to explore life any further.

In my line of job, it is unavoidable to meet random people everyday so it wasn't unusual to get an email from someone asking for my consulting expertise or to get random inquiries. One day though, I received an email from this guy and the unusual happened. We seemed to communicate with each other with so much ease and while being candid isn't new in my job, it certainly felt like we were long, lost friends. After a few days of email bantering we decided to meet.

The first time I saw him, that first day we decided to see each other, that memory will probably stay with me forever. He was there standing across the street and it felt like the whole world stop while I was staring at him. It may sound cliche, but I was totally mindless about everything happening around me. There was just me and him. That very moment echoed the thoughts uttered by AnaĂŻs Nin from another era. Those same words I mocked not so long ago. What happened next, threw me off my game and my comfort zone. Completely.

What happens when a complete stranger walked into your life and make you feel and see things you didn't know actually exist? For me, I got scared and confused. I didn't want to succumbed to my feelings. I didn't want to smile or laugh everytime we're together or everytime we're talking. I didn't even want to keep seeing him. I wanted to stay in the safety of my own little world but I just can't stay away from him. So I made a decision, I decided to brace myself for the fall and let myself get drunk with all the new sensations I'm starting to feel. For the first time I felt completely vulnerable. I started questioning my old life. I started to feel insecure. Though, for the first time as well, I felt genuinely happy being in a relationship. It wasn't all smooth sailing. I had to work through my insecurities popping out of nowhere. I had to deal with my emotions that I'm mostly unfamiliar with. We had to make a lot of adjustments and find balance between our erratic work schedules and our own individual activities. There were moments when I wonder if its all worth it but every time I start having doubts, I always end up with the same answer. Yes. So even though, I know that things may end eventually, I let myself fall and cherish the time I get to spend with him. Everyday, I whisk away the fears and I embrace the changes happening with me. Everyday, I look forward to spending more time with him. 



It was a relationship filled with trust, openness and mutual respect. It was a relationship where I learned to be more open with my feelings, with my thoughts and my opinion, knowing that they will not be ignored or patronized. It was a relationship where I felt that I didn't have to sacrifice my principles and individuality to be happy. It was a relationship where I learned to do things I was once scared of doing. It was a relationship where I got thrown out of my comfort zone and yet despite my fears it felt utterly good. I grew as a person and got more in touch with my inner self. I started to realize what are the things that matters to me, how I really want to treated and what I've been looking for. It was a relationship that was passionate and fulfilling with both of us respecting each other's boundaries, limits and priorities. 


In the end, I didn't get my happily ever after. Some days I remember those beautiful moments and it was truly painful. Just like when I first saw him, I just wanted the world to stop moving. I wanted to go back to the way things were. I wanted to wake up beside him again and watch him while he's still asleep. I just kept on missing him every single day. 


At some point I wished I can be apathetic so I won't feel any pain anymore but at the same time it felt so wrong to feel that way. That pain is a reminder that everything had been real. That pain made me realize that I had been out of the cocoon finally. The pain reminded me that I have started living life and apathy will threw me back to the way things were, being a zombie. I didn't want that anymore.

Taking steps forward each and every day had been tough. There were days when I just want to stay in my room and wallow in my sadness and misery all day. I had to stop going to certain places because they make me wistful. Yet, everyday I kept going, I kept smiling, I kept on doing things I've come to love because of him. Everyday, I tell myself that I'm strong enough to make it and that I can keep living a happy and fulfilled life even without him. 

Then I started feeling more stable, after awhile, though, the confusion set in. There was me and then, there is me. I became a different person and I felt like I had to start some aspects of my life over. Again, that was a scary thing. I have to begin another phase of my life and figure out a lot of things. I have to acknowledge my new identity, my desires, my fears and my new found dreams. There were certain people I had to leave behind in my new journey. There were habits I had to forego. Change, can be a daunting task especially in the beginning. Though, when I feel like I want to give up, I just looked back on those times and somehow those memories gave me strength.

When I look back on those days now I don't feel sad anymore. I don't feel any regrets either, for taking the risk and wanting that relationship to happen. I wanted it to last but now I've come to accept that it was just meant to become one sweet memory in my life. A phase that needed to happen so I can learn more about myself to become a better person. It was my serendipity and I'm thankful that it happened because it made me stronger. It gave me a whole new perspective about myself and about life. It made me love and cherish life all the more. 

If I'm to fall in love again I want to remember those words by AnaĂŻs Nin and feel just like that.


Baguio Excursion: Cemetery of Negativism

Camp John Hay was not exactly one my favorite spots in Baguio city. It's a vast land more suitable for long walks. It is also a good place if you want to go for a nice picnic or if you want to play badminton or even football. Well, I'm not really into sports or even running or brisk walks, I used to enjoy walking only, when I go shopping (go figure). 


These days though, I relish moments when I can go for some walk undisturbed and get to be alone with my thoughts. That's what prompted me to visit this place. I've never seen much of Camp John Hay except the Mile Hi Center, which is a shopping area. I'm most curious to see place called the Cemetery of Negativism, so one sunny afternoon while I was in Baguio City, I hired a cab to take me to this place and to wait for me while I was mulling over some matters. 
It's a nice and quiet spot where one can ponder some thoughts or exercise one's creativity (write or paint) while being surrounded by the beauty of nature. The tombstones are more amusing than scary and pausing for a moment to read the witty epitaphs will make you wonder about certain moments in your life.
Popularly known as the Lost Cemetery, there are no dead bodies in this place; rather it served as a burial ground for the fears and negative thoughts. One of the receptionists by the entrance told me that this place was erected by Major John Hightower. Known for having unusual and creative ideas, his soldiers supposedly conducted mock burials in this place to leave their fears and negative thoughts behind, before assuming their military duties. Hmmm... Pretty creative indeed! 



So there I was, enjoying the solitude, (there was no one else around) sitting in the middle of the tombstones, happily typing my thoughts down in my tablet. If I had been an artist, I would have sketch the scenery in front of me as it was beautiful. If one is looking for a symbolic place to bury all of those negativity, then this is the spot! 

A Psychedelic Trip with Saint Janus

I can't remember when exactly electronic music started to become so popular, surpassing other genres. It's like one day I'm listening to rock music, the next I'm listening to a rock band playing an EDM inspired music. Though, with the rise of EDM, its getting harder to find artists with their own unique sound. You hear the same beats, you hear the same drops and they all seemed to fall under one inconspicuous genre.

Incidentally, while I was wondering about this, I bumped into this DJ/Producer who seemed to have other things going on. The first dose of his music had been a shot of love! Amidst, the cacophony of bass drops and mushy, pop-ish lyrics here comes someone who has something entirely different to offer.

Definitely, a genre of its own, listening to Saint Janus'music is like a glorious trip to the outer space, one that you don't want to end too soon. His compositions reminded me of those psychedelic music I listened to when I was much younger. They are raw and erratic, yet the overall quality is definitely beautiful. Its like the music doesn't follow any rules except that of it's producer. Sometimes, it certainly feels like the music has its own life and will keep playing even if you hit the stop button.

Avatar records who will be releasing Saint Janus second Ep, described his music as - "A combination of elements from progressive rock and psychedelic space rock while projecting a euphoric relaxed atmosphere. His music suggests a new approach to psybient and psychill. A fusion of deep and relaxed compositions with an array of slow rhythms which will gently cover you." Just like what I said, it's one of kind.

Listening to Saint Janus will definitely make one dig deeper into the electronic scene. One will realize that that there's more to electronic music than catchy tunes, the so called anthems or those bass drops which makes you want to go jumping around. This is the kind of music which will make you realize that electronic music is not just about the mainstream beats and the fame which seems to envelop DJ's these days. Given a proper dedication and letting one's passion to take hold instead of the superficiality of today's music industry, electronic music can still be quite artistic and eloquent as it once had been.

So if you want to hear more than just the usual bass drops or if you're simply tired of the same top 40's mash-ups, you definitely have to look up this Producer. It's a guaranteed trip to another dimension minus any crack you can think of.

Friday, January 18, 2013

Snippets from my Favorite Authors and Novels: Dean Koontz


DEAN KOONTZ

"Some people misunderstand evil and believe it will relent, and because their misplaced hope inspires dark hearts to dream darker dreams, they are the fathers and mothers of all wars. Evil does not relent; it must be defeated. And even when defeated, uprooted, and purified by fire, evil leaves behind a seed that will one day germinate and, in blooming, again be misunderstood."  

"Six billion of us walking the planet, six billion smaller worlds on the bigger one. Shoe salesmen and short-order cooks who look boring from the outside - some have weirder lives than you. Six billion stories, every one an epic, full of tragedy and triumph, good and evil, despair and hope. You and me - we aren't so special, bro."

"Waiting is one of the things that human beings cannot do well, though it is one of the essential things we must do successfully if we are to know happiness."


"Do as little harm to others as you can; make any sacrifice for your true friends; be responsible for yourself and ask nothing of others; and grab all the fun you can. Don't give much thought to yesterday, don't worry about tomorrow, live in the moment, and trust that your existence has meaning even when the world seems to be all blind chance and chaos. When life lands a hammer blow in your face, do your best to respond to the hammer as if it had been a cream pie."

"Fact: No matter how smart and courageous and well-intentioned you are, there's always a chance that you would not become the person you envisioned yourself being, because your own mind or body could fail you."   -What the Night Knows 

"Life ... is not about how fast you run or even with what degree of grace. It's about perseverance, about staying on your feet and slogging forward no matter what."  -Odd Thomas

"Every day we make our way through a moral forest, along pathways ever branching. Often we get lost. When the array of paths before us is so perplexing that we can't make a choice, or won't, we can hope that we will be given a sign to guide us. A reliance on signs, however, can lead to the evasion of all moral obligations, and thus earn a terrible judgment."  -Forever Odd


"Ignorance isn't bliss, but sometimes ignorance makes it possible for us to sleep at night."  -Dark Rivers of the Heart


"Grief is a healthy emotion, and it's healthy to embrace it. By accepting loss, we clarify our values and the meaning of our lives."  -Forever Odd


"Without trust, there can be no tranquil resting of the mind ... there can be no belief. No belief in kindness. Or integrity. In anything."  -Velocity



"To do...what you feel sure is right and in the aid of justice, you sometimes have to do things that...make you wonder if in fact you are the good man that you like to believe you are."  -Odd Hours


"It is also essential that good men and women not be educated and propagandized into believing that real evil is a myth and that all malevolent behavior is merely the result of a broken family's or a failed society's shortcomings, amenable to cure by counseling and by the application of new economic theory."  -Odd Hours



"If evil geniuses are so rare, why do so many bad people get away with so many crimes against their fellow citizens, and, when they become leaders of nations, against humanity?"  -Odd Hours

"Imagination was so powerful that you had to be careful because you could imagine things into existence that you might regret."  -What the Night Knows


"Life is a gift that must be given back, and joy should arise from its possession. It's too damn short, and that's a fact. Hard to accept, this earthly procession to final darkness is a journey done, circle completed, work of art sublime, a sweet melodic rhyme, a battle won." -

The Book Of Counted Sorrows


"These days law thinks it's about nothin' but laws. Law don't remember it was once handed down from somewhere, that it once meant not just no, but was a way to live and a reason to live that way. Law now thinks nobody but politicians made it or remake it, so maybe it ain't a surprise some people don't care anymore about law, and even some lawmen don't understand the real reason for law."  -Brother Odd


"The why of the mind's existence and the how of its profound capacity to reason - especially its penchant for moral reasoning - will by their very nature remain as mysterious as whatever lies outside of time." -Odd Interlude


"I realized that loving people, depending on them, NEEDING them, is just too dangerous. Love is just a way to set you up for a bad fall. It's the rug they pull out from under you at the very moment you decide that everything's going to be fine. We're all so ephemeral. So fragile. And life's so unpredictable."  -Darkfall


"Life is a train ride, and at the many stations along the route, people important to us debark, never to get aboard again, until by the end of the journey, we sit in a passenger car where most of the seats are empty."  -False Memory


"Between birth and burial, we find ourselves in a comedy of mysteries. If you don't think life is mysterious, if you believe you have it all mapped out, you aren't paying attention or you've anesthetized yourself with booze or drugs, or with a comforting ideology. And if you don't think life's a comedy - well, friend, you might as well hurry along to that burial. The rest of us need people with whom we can laugh." -Odd Apocalypse



"Truth is always stranger than fiction. We craft fiction to match our sense of how things ought to be, but truth cannot be crafted. Truth is, and truth has a way of astonishing us to our knees. Reminding us, that the universe does not exist to fulfill our expectations. Because we are imperfect beings who are self-blinded to the truth of the world’s stunning complexity, we shave reality to paper thin theories and ideologies that we can easily grasp – and we call them truths. But the truth of a sea in all it’s immensity cannot be embodied in one tidewashed pebble."  -A Big Little Life: A Memoir of a Joyful Dog

"Being polite is not only the right way to respond to people but also the easiest. Life is so filled with unavoidable conflict that I see no reason to promote more confrontations." -Odd Thomas

"Anger was a reliable defense, but one that allowed no chance of final victory. Anger was a medicine but never a cure, briefly numbing the pain without extracting the thorn that caused the agony." -One Door Away from Heaven

"Narcissists are everywhere in this ripe age of self-love, which amazes me because so much in life would seem to foster humility. Each of us is a potential source of foolishness, each of us must endure the consequences of the foolishness of others, and in addition to all of that, Nature frequently works to impress upon us our absurdity and thereby remind us that we are not the masters of the universe that we like to suppose we are."  -
Odd Apocalypse

"Even in the darkest moments, light exists if you have the faith to see it. Fear is a poison produced by the mind, and courage is the antidote stored always in the soul. In misfortune lies the seed of future triumph."  -
One Door Away from Heaven


"In a book, even the real bastards can't hurt you. And you can never loose a friend you make in a book. When you get to a sad part, no one's there to see you cry. Or wonder why you don't cry when you should."  -Chase

"Most people tend to think the best of those who are blessed with beauty. We have difficulty imagining that physical perfection can conceal twisted emotions or a damaged mind."  -Odd Thomas

"The human imagination may be the most elastic thing in the universe, stretching to encompass the millions of dreams that in centuries of relentless struggle built modern civilization, to entertain the endless doubts that hamper every human enterprise, and to conceive the vast menagerie of boogeymen that trouble every human heart."  -The Taking


"He was part of a family whether he wanted to be or not, the family of humanity, more often than not a frustrating and contentious clan, flawed and often deeply confused, but also periodically noble and admirable, with a common destiny that every member shared."  -
Winter Moon

"What will happen will happen. There is time for miracles until there is no more time, but time has no end."  -Velocity

"I've since discovered that many human beings need no supernatural mentoring to commit acts of savagery; some people are devils in their own right, their telltale horns having grown inward to facilitate their disguise." -Odd Thomas

"There's no use wasting are energy being afraid of the devils, demons and things that go bump in the night... Because ultimately we'll never encounter anything more terrifying than the monster among us. Hell is where we make it."  -Phantoms

"We must seize life because we never know how much of it remains for us, that faith is the antidote to despair and that laughter is the music of faith."  -Relentless


"What sucks the worst is this world was a gift to us, and we broke it, and part of the deal is that if we want things right, we have to fix it ourselves. But we can't. We try, but we can't."  -
Forever Odd

"Sometimes it seemed that the human heart, this side of Eden, feared life more than death, light more than darkness, freedom more than surrender."  -What the Night Knows

"Appearances are not reality; but they often can be a convincing alternative to it. You can control appearances most of the time, but facts are what they are. When the facts are too sharp, you can craft a cheerful version of the situation and cover the facts the way that you can covered a battered old four-slice toaster with a knitted cozy featuring images of kittens."  -The Good Guy

"Bad people succeed and good people fail, but that's not the end of the story. Miracles happen that nobody sees, and among us walk heroes who are never recognized, and people live in loneliness because they cannot believe they are loved."  -The Darkest Evening of the Year

"Each smallest act of kindness, reverberates across great distances and spans of time --affecting lives unknown to the one who’s generous spirit, was the source of this good echo. Because kindness is passed on and grows each time it’s passed until a simple courtesy becomes an act of selfless courage, years later, and far away. Likewise, each small meanness, each expression of hatred, each act of evil."  -From the Corner of His Eye

"In real life during the last decade of the twentieth century, Rumpelstiltskin would probably get the queen's daughter. He would no doubt addict her to heroin, turn her out as a prostitute, confiscate her earnings, beat her for pleasure, hack her to pieces, and escape justice by claiming that society's intolerance for bad-tempered, evil-minded trolls had driven him temporarily insane." -Dragon Tears

"Fate isn’t one straight road…there are forks in it, many different routes to different ends. We have the free will to choose the path."  -Odd Thomas

"In each little life, we can see great truth and beauty, and in each little life we glimpse the way of all things in the universe. If we alow ourselves to be enchanted by the beauty of the ordinary, we begin to see that all things extraordinary."  -A Big Little Life: A Memoir of a Joyful Dog

"Always, the eye sees more than the mind can comprehend, and we go through life self-blinded to much that lies before us. We want a simple world, but we live in a magnificently complex one, and rather than open ourselves to it, we perceive the world through filters that make it less daunting."  -Relentless

"Although the human heart is selfish and arrogant, so many struggle against their selfishness and learn humility; because of them, as long as there is life, there is hope that beauty lost can be rediscovered, that what has been reviled can be redeemed."  -The Taking

"More to the point, I know why soldiers, home from war, seldom tell their families about their exploits in more than general terms. We who survive must go on in the names of those who fall, but if we dwell too much on the vivid details of what we've witnessed of man's inhumanity to man, we simply can't go on. perseverance is impossible if we don't permit ourselves to hope."  -Odd Thomas

"Funny, how one good cookie could calm the mind and even elevate a troubled soul."  -False Memory

"Sometimes, life seems to have a higher meaning. Events unfold in uncanny sequences. Long-forgotten acquaintances turn up with news that changes lives. A stranger appears and speaks a few words of wisdom, solving a previously insoluble problem, or something in a recent dream transpires in reality. Suddenly the existence of God seems confirmed."  -Winter Moon

"Maybe when all was said and done, the imagination was the most powerful of all weapons. It was the imagination of the human race that had allowed it to dream of a life beyond cold caves and of a possible future in the stars."  -
Winter Moon

"When you have dogs, you witness their uncomplaining acceptance of suffering, their bright desire to make the most of life in spite of the limitations of age and disease, their calm awareness of the approaching end when their final hours come. They accept death with a grace that I hope I will one day be brave enough to muster." -A Memoir of a Joyful Dog

"When we make our own misery we sometimes cling to it even when we want so bad to change, because misery is something we know. The misery is comfortable."  -One Door Away from Heaven

"We yearn for tomorrow and the progress that it represents. But yesterday was once tomorrow, and where was progress in it? Or we yearn for yesterday, for what was or what might have been. But as we are yearning, the present is becoming the past, so the past is nothing but our yearning for second chances."  -Brother Odd

"The things we worry about the most are never the things that bite us. The sharpest teeth always take their nip of us when we are looking the other way."  -Forever Odd

"We must know the pain of loss; because if we never knew it, we would have no compassion for others, and we would become monsters of self-regard, creatures of unalloyed self-interest. The terrible pain of loss teaches humility to our prideful kind, has the power to soften uncaring hearts, to make a better person of a good one."  -
The Darkest Evening of the Year

"No one's life should be rooted in fear. We are born for wonder, for joy, for hope, for love, to marvel at the mystery of existence, to be ravished by the beauty of the world, to seek truth and meaning, to acquire wisdom, and by our treatment of others to brighten the corner where we are."  -Life Expectancy

"If we were always conscious of the fact that people precious to us are frighteningly mortal, hanging not even by a thread, but by a wisp of gossamer, perhaps we would be kinder to them and more grateful for the love and friendship they give to us."  -Seize the Night

"There are no explanations for human evil. Only excuses."  -Dean Koontz, Intensity

"Every life is complicated, every mind a kingdom of unmapped mysteries."  -Forever Odd

"No one can grant you happiness. Happiness is a choice we all have the power to make."  -Life Expectancy

"Envy, envy eats them alive. If you had money, they’d envy you that. But since you don’t, they envy you for having such a good, bright, loving daughter. They envy you for just being a happy man. They envy you for not envying them. One of the greatest sorrows of human existence is that some people aren’t happy merely to be alive but find their happiness only in the misery of others."  -Lightning

"Hope is the destination that we seek. Love is the road that leads to hope. Courage is the motor that drives us. We travel out of darkness into faith."  -Book of Counted Sorrows

"Grief can destroy you --or focus you. You can decide a relationship was all for nothing if it had to end in death, and you alone. OR you can realize that every moment of it had more meaning than you dared to recognize at the time, so much meaning it scared you, so you just lived, just took for granted the love and laughter of each day, and didn't allow yourself to consider the sacredness of it. But when it's over and you're alone, you begin to see that it wasn't just a movie and a dinner together, not just watching sunsets together, not just scrubbing a floor or washing dishes together or worrying over a high electric bill. It was everything, it was the why of life, every event and precious moment of it. The answer to the mystery of existence is the love you shared sometimes so imperfectly, and when the loss wakes you to the deeper beauty of it, to the sanctity of it, you can't get off your knees for a long time, you're driven to your knees not by the weight of the loss but by gratitude for what preceded the loss. And the ache is always there, but one day not the emptiness, because to nurture the emptiness, to take solace in it, is to disrespect the gift of life."  -Odd Hours

"How passionately we love everything that cannot last: the dazzling crystallory of winter, the spring in bloom, the fragile flight of butterflies, crimson sunsets, a kiss, and life."  -
Brother Odd

"Courage, love, friendship, compassion, and empathy lift us above the simple beasts and define humanity."  -Book Of Counted Sorrows

"Every eye sees its own special vision; every ear hears a most different song. In each man's troubled heart, an incision would reveal a unique, shameful wrong."  -The Book of Counted Sorrows

"Change isn't easy. Changing the way you live means changing the way you think, means changing what you believe about life. That's hard."  -One Door Away from Heaven